I am a mistress and a woman. But in our society, femininity is portrayed as weak, it misidentifies women and what it truly means to be a woman. I believe that there is great power in femininity if you know how to wield it. When I tell people I’m a domme, men are amazed at how soft and sweet I am. Since power tends to be associated with masculinity, to be a domme, you are expected to display that.